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Subject: How to look like you’re not in a rush when you’re in a rush? 

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“I’m getting older, so I tend to move quickly. I don’t want to scare my dates away but I’m wondering how do I get to the next level without becoming too desperate emotionally or sexually?”-- Kiebpoli

[Name], have you ever felt you’re coming on too strong, too quickly? Do you feel stuck not knowing how to not look like you’re in a rush, when you’re in fact, in a rush? 

You’re not alone. When you think about it, most people have been in this position in their lives at one time or another. Whether they are rushing to get their dream job or rushing to find the love of their life, people generally like to achieve their goals sooner rather than later. 

This doesn’t mean start going slow with everything and everyone. You don’t want to go slow with the wrong guy. The key is to get rid of the wrong guy faster, but take your time with the right guy. 

You don’t want to rush things with the right guy, the guy who shows you he’s dating with purpose because rushing things scare people away. It can make him feel like he’s just a means to an end. 

In this [video], I unpack this theory with my dad and explore some communication pointers, like the impact communicating emotionally instead of logically has on the response of the other person.  

So [Name] how does this all help keep you from sounding desperate on your next date? 

As a first step realize that being in a rush doesn’t make you desperate. Think about all the things you’ve achieved so far in your life and how amazingly capable you are.

Then, the answer is simple. Get a tool to help ease the pressure of the conversation on the first date, practical scripts so you can communicate with ease, without worrying about sounding rushed. 

My bestselling communication guide has 59 practical, copy-and-paste scripts to give you the right words in every situation. 

Get the relationship you deserve and never worry about scaring your dates away again. 

We’re in this together. 
Always,

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